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You’re in a friendship or some type of budding relationship, you claim “life happened” and you put the other person on the back burner of your life. There’s a saying I saw somewhere on the Internet, it was something like this: “When someone treats you as an option, stop treating them as a priority.”
You enjoy a thing, a situation, even during the ups and downs, the negatives and the positives.
I wrote an article on Friendship a while ago and my mind keeps going back to what “friendship” means to me. Situations and circumstances occur weekly that cause me to ponder, again, what that word means to others.
I remember my cousins and I going outside and playing for a while. For some reason, we’d come back inside, for something to drink maybe or to use the bathroom. We’d go back outside, come back in, go back out, come back in. Finally, my mother or grandmother would say, “Either stay out or stay in. Leave that door alone.”
I often say, “I love easy and I love hard.” I’m what people call “a giver.”
“Vanilla” is a term used within the BDSM community for those who aren’t involved in kinky things, including power exchange dynamics which isn’t necessarily a “kink.” “Vanilla” people are considered typical every day, somewhat boring, and predictable. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t know anyone who doesn’t actually like … say … vanilla ice cream.
There’s a multitude of people who say they’re not into giving money/tributes, want a “real” relationship,
I told Braheem if he wanted to see people having sex to walk the long way around the room and come back to me. He returned with, “that was weak fucking! They were barely moving.” I inhaled slowly to collect my thoughts.
BDSM: “Bondage and disciple consist of using physical or psychological restraints, domination and submission involve an exchange of power and control, and sadism and masochism refer to taking pleasure in others’ or one’s own pain or humiliation.” Merriam-Webster Continue reading BDSM and Sex within a Scene
