Articles and stories pertaining to BDSM. The acronym BDSM means Bondage & Discipline; Dominance & Submission; Sadism & Masochism.
Adult play is supposed to be fun, which is way it’s called “play.” However, there are still some safeguards we need to set in place, before we begin, to ensure a scene or session goes well.
Continue reading BDSM: Negotiating Adult Play Scenes or Sessions
I’m friends with several women who identify as a Professional Dominatrix (ProDomme).
Continue reading I’m Not a Traditional Dominatrix
I appreciate how far this nation has come since the Civil Rights Movement and the days of Malcolm X and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. However, there still seems to be a long way to go. I had the idea to do this article in the fall, and find it fitting during Black History Month to feel motivated to write it.
Continue reading I’m Conflicted by POC Events (Black History Month Musings)
I’ve been on Fetlife about three years now and have noticed several ways to identify if someone is play- or lifestyle- oriented.
I became aware of various acronyms regarding how to play safely when I joined Fetlife.
I have a screening process for potential clients and also a Consent Checklist for them to complete, if it gets that far. Why wouldn’t someone who contacts me for a service end up being an actual client? I’m glad you asked.
I realized why my previous D/s and M/s dynamics didn’t work out. A person would periodically ask me for something, my time, my clinical expertise, to help them explore their kinks, etc.
I was previously and sporadically on dating sites. It’s my opinion that the same types of people are on dating sites, regardless of the sites.
I don’t include piv, pia, or oral sex into my scenes and sessions.
This is the last installment of this mini-series, so I’ll jump right in again as I did for Pt 2.
Continue reading Pain and Personality Types in the BDSM Lifestyle – Pt 3 of 3
