I did a video based on honesty and communication with someone new you’ve met. The question to ask yourself when meeting new people is whether or not you’re presenting your authentic self, and if you’re willing to discuss or clarify topics you bring up.Continue reading Are You Representing Your Authentic Self?
I did a video asking you to think about whether you’re a Kinkster, active in the BDSM Community, or active in the M/s or Leather Community.Continue reading BDSM: Are You a Kinkster or Something Else?
This article will discuss not getting along with others and others disliking them as relationship red flags. The accompanying video can be found here.Continue reading Relationship Series: Red Flags – Part 8 (Not Getting Along with Others & Others Disliking Them)
This article, and the corresponding video, is a mental health check reflection on 2020 and what behaviors and attitudes not to carry over into 2021.Continue reading Don’t Take Toxicity Into 2021, Not Even Your Own
This article is about empathy and how to tell if someone’s story is being heard. Listening and accepting what’s said as truth is the foundation of being empathetic. The basis is to not discount what’s shared due to lack of a personal reference point. You can watch the accompanying video here.Continue reading How to Be Empathetic
People treat you how you allow them to treat you. Not in the sense that you can control their behavior, but by you making your boundaries known and maintaining them. You can watch the accompanying video here.Continue reading People Treat You How You Allow Them to Treat You
This article will discuss lack of communication, not taking an interest in your life, and how they treat other people as relationship red flags. The accompanying video can be found here.Continue reading Relationship Series: Red Flags – Part 7 (Communication, Showing Interest, & Being Kind)
Online dating is challenging, and even more so, with COVID and social distancing. My advice to being successful with online dating is to change your perspective on what’s considered success. You may think you’re unsuccessful because you’re not meeting people.Continue reading Let’s Change Our Perspective on What’s Considered Successful Online Dating
I wanted to write this article and do an accompanying video, which can be found here, on where I am in my memoir writing journey.Continue reading What’s Going on With Me & My Memoir
Some people are wired to be helpful. They see something that needs to be done and immediately do it. If they know someone has a need or desire, they automatically step in to fill that void. In a potential relationship, even in a budding friendship, this may be a mistake. If you’d like to see me discuss this topic, the video can be found here.Continue reading Don’t Give Yourself Too Soon and Be Honest About Why You Do What You Do