Why Do You Dom? (#TruthTuesday #BDSM #FemDom)

Below in quotation marks is the question I was asked. And, below that is my reply. I thought others may have that or a similar question and I decided to post it here on my page. It’s already posted on my Fetlife page.

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He also asked about my vanilla interests and fetishes, which are already on my Fetlife page so I didn’t answer that in the response below. My response could have been longer, but what I wrote is the gist of it.

“Why do you Dom? What is the role of the Dom, What is the role of Sub, …”

As my profile says, I’m a naturally dominant woman. It’s not something I do. Why, is simply because it’s who I am at my core being. In my opinion a role of a Dom is to care for, respect, lead, their s-type through dominating areas of their life that they give consent for through negotiations. I believe the role of a Dom is to also push their s-types limits, all for the purpose of helping them be a better individual and more effective in their submission. As I mentioned previously, I believe communication is one of the key factors in any relationship, especially a D/s or M/s relationship.

In my opinion, the role of a sub is to obey their Dom within the negotiated limits and to do so without resistance, to do so willingly for the simple joy of pleasing their Dom. I believe a sub should desire to grow as a person through their submission and obedience.

I’d love to hear what your response would be if asked this or a similar question.

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