“Vanilla” is a term used within the BDSM community for those who aren’t involved in kinky things, including power exchange dynamics which isn’t necessarily a “kink.” “Vanilla” people are considered typical every day, somewhat boring, and predictable. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t know anyone who doesn’t actually like … say … vanilla ice cream.
My mild OCD dictates a lot of things in my life: how I do things, when I do things, arranging things, time management.
NOTE: This is a cross-post from my Fetlife.com profile page.
Must love dogs. …NOT.
This year has gone by and I sometimes wonder where it went. I was thinking about it the other day and decided to write about it for two reasons: 1) to let you know what’s been going on with me and, 2) to explain why I haven’t been posting much.
I want to know you … And not in the Biblical sense.
There’s a multitude of people who say they’re not into giving money/tributes, want a “real” relationship,