Category: Relationships&Dating

Love: When Do You Know (#LoveAndRelationships)

Love is a Verb

I often say, “I love easy and I love hard.” I’m what people call “a giver.” I typically put another’s needs and wants ahead of my own. It’s easier for me to think of how to enhance another person’s life than to ask for something I need or want. When someone shares their heart with me, I automatically try to think of ways to add a little bit of joy in their lives, even if it may inconvenience me or diminish my resources. Because of how I am, there are some things and situations that take me a while to understand.

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I Won’t Date Vanilla (#DatingAndRelationships #TruthTuesday #AboutMe)

Vanilla Ice Cream

“Vanilla” is a term used within the BDSM community for those who aren’t involved in kinky things, including power exchange dynamics which isn’t necessarily a “kink.” “Vanilla” people are considered typical every day, somewhat boring, and predictable. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t know anyone who doesn’t actually like … say … vanilla ice cream.

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Conversation with a Clown (#DatingNotDating #TruthTuesday)


“Why’d you send me an invite on Facebook?” Clown asked.
My reply was simple. “I’m trying to drive traffic to my blog page and I had to create a Facebook profile page in order to create a Fan Page. When someone accepts my invite, I can then invite them to like my page, and from there they’ll read about my blog and hopefully subscribe to it.”

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