I often say, “I love easy and I love hard.” I’m what people call “a giver.” I typically put another’s needs and wants ahead of my own. It’s easier for me to think of how to enhance another person’s life than to ask for something I need or want. When someone shares their heart with me, I automatically try to think of ways to add a little bit of joy in their lives, even if it may inconvenience me or diminish my resources. Because of how I am, there are some things and situations that take me a while to understand.
“Vanilla” is a term used within the BDSM community for those who aren’t involved in kinky things, including power exchange dynamics which isn’t necessarily a “kink.” “Vanilla” people are considered typical every day, somewhat boring, and predictable. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t know anyone who doesn’t actually like … say … vanilla ice cream.
There’s a multitude of people who say they’re not into giving money/tributes, want a “real” relationship,
I told Braheem if he wanted to see people having sex to walk the long way around the room and come back to me. He returned with, “that was weak fucking! They were barely moving.” I inhaled slowly to collect my thoughts.
BDSM: “Bondage and disciple consist of using physical or psychological restraints, domination and submission involve an exchange of power and control, and sadism and masochism refer to taking pleasure in others’ or one’s own pain or humiliation.” Merriam-Webster Continue reading
Trevor had messaged Julie a few times before sending his phone number and asking her to call him. She declined stating she’d like to learn more about him through messaging first.
“Why’d you send me an invite on Facebook?” Clown asked.
My reply was simple. “I’m trying to drive traffic to my blog page and I had to create a Facebook profile page in order to create a Fan Page. When someone accepts my invite, I can then invite them to like my page, and from there they’ll read about my blog and hopefully subscribe to it.”
Regina tried online dating … again. She knew she was living out the definition of insanity, though she was trying desperately to not become a complete cynic.