Surprise Sex: Inspired by Byron Moss – Part 1 of 3

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Usually when Byron comes over, I tell him I’m going to take a shower and he joins me. We suds each other up, rinse each other off, dry our bodies and head to the bedroom. I didn’t expect this time to be any different.

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You Can Be Aroused by Nonsexual Objects: This is Called a Fetish

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Being open to talk about sex and sexuality, I sometimes ask a person, “Do you have any fetishes?” More often than not the answer is the question, “What is fetishes?” No, that’s not a grammatical error, that’s how it’s asked – literally.  Continue reading You Can Be Aroused by Nonsexual Objects: This is Called a Fetish

How to Touch a Woman: Lesson Three

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Lesson One: Be Gentle          Lesson Two: Be Attentive

Lesson Three: Be Adventurous & Spontaneous

You’ve read about starting off gently with a new partner and practiced being attentive. Hopefully, you’re with the same partner and will continue to move through these lessons, which will heighten intimacy (and orgasms) between you two.

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Friends with Benefits vs a Booty Call

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“FWB” is the common acronym for the term “Friends with Benefits.” What it means is that you’re friends with someone with a sexual benefit. FWB is different from a “Booty Call,” which is when individuals get together for trysts without any other commitment. Most people don’t realize the difference between FWBs and booty calls, which prompted me to write this article. Continue reading Friends with Benefits vs a Booty Call

How To Touch a Woman: Lesson Two

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Lesson One: Be Gentle

Lesson Two: Be Attentive

Gloria had a male friend whom she LOVED having sex with. She said he was very attentive and she told him so one day. His response was, “What’s attentive?” Knowing Gloria, she laughed and then felt slightly annoyed that she had to conduct a vocabulary lesson. As she told me that quick little story, I began wondering how many others didn’t know what it meant.

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How to Touch a Woman: Lesson One

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Lesson One: Start Off Gentle

True, there are some women who like rough sex. However, start off gentle when with her the first few times. It’s impatient to push yourself into her when her body isn’t ready. NOTE: if she’s not lubricated, she’s not ready.

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Foreplay is the Best Play: The Couple Unites – Part 3 of 3

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Lady’s First – Part 1 of 3 

The Gentleman’s Turn – Part 2 of 3

Robert’s lips found hers and he plunged his tongue into her mouth. Karen could still taste her sweetness on his lips. He regained the hold on her hair and gently yanked her head backward; his lips moving to her neck. Karen held onto him so tightly that her nails began to pierce the skin on his back. Continue reading Foreplay is the Best Play: The Couple Unites – Part 3 of 3

What’s the Game

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Dating as a middle-aged person can be challenging and confusing. The former due to unrealistic expectations that peers would be more or less situated in their lives and want to settle down, given they’d want to spend time with you and get to know you first as a person rather than an immediate sex partner. The later due the absence of the former. Continue reading What’s the Game