“Vanilla” is a term used within the BDSM community for those who aren’t involved in kinky things, including power exchange dynamics which isn’t necessarily a “kink.” “Vanilla” people are considered typical every day, somewhat boring, and predictable. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t know anyone who doesn’t actually like … say … vanilla ice cream.
My mild OCD dictates a lot of things in my life: how I do things, when I do things, arranging things, time management.
This year has gone by and I sometimes wonder where it went. I was thinking about it the other day and decided to write about it for two reasons: 1) to let you know what’s been going on with me and, 2) to explain why I haven’t been posting much.
I realized NaNoWriMo started the fourth of this month.
I was already four days behind depending on how you looked at it. I completed an extreme rough draft of a novel during NaNoWriMo and my head told me it was in 2016.
MsC is the Master/slave Conference. It’s held once a year and this year was my first time attending. Continue reading
Below in quotation marks is the question I was asked. And, below that is my reply. I thought others may have that or a similar question and I decided to post it here on my page. It’s already posted on my Fetlife page.
I often ask others how long they’ve been in the lifestyle or when they realized they had a fetish or were drawn to kink. Continue reading