Adult play is supposed to be fun, which is way it’s called “play.” However, there are still some safeguards we need to set in place, before we begin, to ensure a scene or session goes well.Continue reading BDSM: Negotiating Adult Play Scenes or Sessions
A red flag can be your partner agreeing with a friend to not share any information about them or what they discuss.Continue reading Relationship Red Flag: A Lack of Communication About Small Things at Someone Else’s Request
Do you sometimes wonder why people act the way they do toward you? Do you question if they sincerely care about you? Have friends expressed they question your feelings toward them? I did a YouTube video on this very topic, under the same title, which can be found here.Continue reading Are You a Compassionate Friend/Partner?
I was thinking of “fight or flight” and how it’s not always a physical reaction. Sometimes, it’s psychological. I did a corresponding YouTube video which you can watch here.Continue reading Fight, Flight, or Freeze Isn’t Always a Physical Response
Stages of Grief are listed as having five stages, sometimes seven. I’ll list them as seven for the sake of this article and the corresponding video, which can be found here.Continue reading Relationship Breakups: Where Am I in the Stages of Grief
I’m now 50 years old and first started dating when I was about 14. I’m sharing that to say I’ve had plenty of dating experiences and have been in relationships with different types of guys. I realized the breakup, regardless of whether it was my idea or not, was a good thing because it usually caused me to do some introspection and self-reflection.Continue reading Relationship Breakups: Learning Your Behavioral & Emotional Patterns
This article accompanies a YouTube video I currently did after a breakup. I provided context as to why he broke up with me and discussed what I learned about myself from being in that relationship.Continue reading Learning from a Relationship Breakup During COVID: An Opportunity for Personal Growth
I’ve been behind on posting blog articles, or at least I feel I’ve been. The COVID-19 happenings around the world, the shutdown of stores, the shelter orders (of which my home State of Delaware has one) had my mind spinning and ignited my depression.Continue reading WIP Progress: My First Memoir
I’ve heard it said repeatedly by numerous people over the years that they don’t know who they are without a partner, they feel incomplete, they feel they’re not living with a purpose, etc.Continue reading Why Am I Single?
I’ve watched quite a few YouTube videos on minimalism and admit that I’m not one. However, I do have some tendencies or life habits that some of them have incorporated.Continue reading I’m Not a Minimalist, Although I Have Some of Their Tendencies